MS, I was told to read your sitch by a lovely friend as we seem to share certain similarities.
I just want to tell you that you're a very strong person to have gone through what you did.
Btw, I concur with V. You're entitled to your look of disgust. Your H shouldn't have the right to tell you what to do or not to do. Guilty is as guilty does.
And what snide remark? I don't think your remark was snide. I say it's just a matter of calling a spade a spade.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.