Having lived with my H's A for 2 years, I'm in shock over how fast you act on everything. This is definitely not Divorcebusting. You've had what, one counseling session? You label yourself as an extremely impatient person and just can't help yourself? You're being overreactive and you need to slow down *and you know it*. This is not logic, this is pure emotion.
You can always get divorced, but you don't get another chance to save your M.
Please realize that what you do now, will impact your son for the rest of his life. I haven't seen him mentioned once except in your signature.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17