Hi Rouky and Irish, thank you both for looking in on me! I've had an extremely busy week back at work after the Easter holidays - haven't had time to post!
We went on a family day out on the last day of the holidays which was good, it was like there was nothing wrong, but then at the end of it H still just walks off 'home' to his Dad's house.
It is all starting to just feel too weird for me. He comes round for hours on end when he isn't working (or doesn't want to go to drinking with his Dad or colleagues) and then just walks off. I'm starting to think I am letting him get too cozy in this alternate universe of his and he's cake eating. We have finished the exercises in the book now (on Tuesday) and nothing has been said since about anything to do with R. I feel irritated when he is here because he just sits in a chair for hours, looking at his phone or tablet and occasionally speaking to one of us, while I buzz around doing everything, then walks away. He has no responsibilities and is still not living in the real world. It has been over 5 months since he left now. I'm not sure what my next move should be because I don't want things to continue like this.
