It's so annoying when they say they are putting the kids' interests first when all they have done it put their own needs first. The fact that that can't tell the difference between what is best for them and what is best for their kid just goes to show how very lost they are.

And yes it is laughable that you "wanted" this. It's just too stupid to bother replying. I think it's all projection.

Nice job zipping it on his response. One of the best things I have learned out of this is the 24 hour rule. I feel like I used to be a really calm person and I because this crazy hot head when MLC started. Just slowing my responses down has really taken the edge off this whole fiasco.

I feel like you would be a great friend to hang out with, too! Don't worry we'd go to your house . . .


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced