To me, that massive confusion he is exhibiting is ringing the MLC bell. I believe you mentioned he had a troubled childhood and unresolved issues there. He would have gone through denial and the anger/irritability. Sure, with all those check marks it's probably MLC.
You guys had a few stressful years there, too. The relocating and changing jobs would have taken its toll. Of course things would have been bumpy during all that!
We all have to keep working on taking care of ourselves through this craziness. It's a nutty place we find ourselves.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
