Something dawned on me... H has been so difficult to communicate with, even if it's just texts about logistical issues. He refuses to answer if I call. He said it's 'too fresh'. He seems angry and lashing out.

I asked him, 'you got what you wanted, why are you angry?'

I wonder if things aren't as great as he thought they would be after I left... I actually think I might be feeling a lot better than he is.

It seems OW is not there - what he says sounds plausible.

However, the very strange messages I got from his friend, via a message app that H never had on his phone (!) made me wonder.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17