I am not as far along as either of you, but I feel this is happening for a reason as well. While, at first, I was sure this was the wake up call our M needed, as our M was less than stellar. I was angry and bitter; he was angry and stressed. I have come a long way since BD. Now, I have no idea what the reason is or will be, but I will be ok. With or without him.
The constant up and downs, ins and outs, have def taken an emotional toll, but I try to remain true to myself. And my kids. S15 said I was a great mom tonite, in front of one of his friends. That made me feel pretty darn good. I am blessed.
Cil-- I think you are doing a remarkable job. Hang in there girl!!
Me 47 H 49 S18 S15 M 21 BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16 Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16 BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16 Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June H leaves 5/7/16