Oh my gosh. Your sitch is so mature compared to mine. I feel like I am living in Pee-wee's Playhouse.

You sound so very balanced. It is good to see you doing what you need to do to take care of you and give you peace of mind.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced