I think its because he continues to be conflicted. He should feel guilty. Let him. You need to keep your focus on you. Let him work his way through this mess. It will take him some time. Give him that time and work on yourself while he's sorting it out. He's sorry and he feels bad but WHAT is he going to do about it? You need to see that he is willing to actually do something and that is when you can start to re-engage with him.


Me: 48 y/o
W: 47 y/o
Together: > 20 yrs
BD: Dec '15, then S
2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D
April '16: started piecing