IMHO it's not helpful for IC to say all you have to do is quit loving H and move on. That's not very easy to do at all. You can't just snap your fingers and change how you feel, no matter how hard you try. You sound very strong to me. Some days it hurts; we all get that up and down feeling.
I find it very interesting that H wants you to go to the wedding with him, and that he's not going with ow. I wonder if you could hold your head up high, be your gorgeous self, be happy and detached, and let him see what he's throwing away? I am a hopeless romantic, and I've probably seen too many movies, but what if seeing you in this context makes him miss you and want you back? (Or it could break your heart all over again if you have too many expectations.) It's just that I know too many friends/couples who have broken up, separated, even divorced, then got back together a couple of years (or less) later. La vie, c'est mystérieux, non?
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
