How to handle the guilt? His not mine. Since BD I have not initiated contact, no pressure no pursuing. Yet, he continually reaches out to me every few days, via email, texts, calls, and always with the same message... he feelings guilty.
Today I got two texts, "I'm really sorry I hurt you" "I'm really sad at the idea your hurt". I am not responding, but why the continued contact? why the broken record of, I am sorry I hurt you, sorry you're sad?
Why doesn't he just leave me alone?! He wants the D and I told him I don't and its his decision alone. So then why not just do it, why keep reaching out to me?
I know I can't mind read, but how to handle a guilty WAS and does it mean anything positive (conflicting feelings, etc.)?
Me:33 H:34 T: 3yrs M: 2yrs H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15 H wants to "make it work" 12/28 BD: 3/10/16
