14 days of sheer hell

[DDJ]

Hi all, I went to the dealership today to start the ball rolling in trading in the car, so that we could get two cars. She told me that she's realising that its actually going to end, and this is the first step, and she feels helpless - welcome to the party.

Tomorrow i need her to draft a letter for her to transfer our house onto my name. so she wont have a car or a house at all. I am pushing for a separation so that we can have time to think and i told her that i want her out by the end of May.

As you all can see, i'm an extremely impatient person, i really cant help myself. Please don't give up on me yet. But i know that i need to detach more, focus on me, and wait until i get the right answers to the following questions:

Do you love me?
Are you in love with me?
Do you trust me?
Do you respect me, as your husband?

When i get all the right answers, which may be lies, i will need to ask her one more question:

Would you do anything to prove your love for me?

If/when i get a yes, then i plan on asking her to face my mother and apologise for the hurt that she put her son through, and to rebuild that bridge. She is yet to show remorse or take accountability for her actions, altho she did say this afternoon that she changed her mind about seeing the OP later in the month. But i still cant trust her.