You could text W and let her know you'd like to drop off a card and see D, and ask when a good time would be. Then hopefully D will be all over you when you see her, and you'll have a super great gift for her that she LOVES. (Let's see what might be better than money...)And you focus all your love on her. Then leave.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat