You are very right not to rush into anything, Painter. You need to heal yourself first. I love how you said that you're 'perfectly fine by yourself.'

Awesome.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16