Klassic, thank you so much for taking the time to read though my sitch and for your empathy for me. I deeply identify with you and your sitch as well. Lets keep track of each others progress. I feel it will be helpful given the similarities in both our stories and timelines.

WRT hope, no matter how small it may be, we still need to hope. For me I am just packing my hope into a box for now and storing it away while I focus on myself and D3. This is because I can't let hope keep me stuck. Instead I need to step back and look at a bigger picture. The priority now is for me to fix myself where I can.

The first month of Separation is the toughest. The only way past the pain is through it. Don't let the pain weigh you down, instead use the pain to plan the changes you need in yourself. No kidding, it's so tough. That's why were are here for you. Keep posting and journalling your feelings.

Thank-you for your prayers and support.

Me37 W33
T:8 M:5
D3
BD 11/2015
EA+PA w boss 12/2015
S 3/2016

Im stronger because I had to be
Im smarter because of my mistakes
happier because of the sadness Ive known
and now wiser because I learned