My WW no longer wants a divorce, and i believe her.
What finally sobered her up completely? I got a lawyer, filed for D, and had her served.
This may work or it may not. I would not go down this road until you know that you will see it through to the end. This isnt a bluff or a ploy to get her to reconsider.
In my opinion, until you want to get a divorce, dont file for divorce.
No bluff. It's a guaranteed cure for fence-sitting/limbo, which is soul-crushing. I agree that it should not be used lightly. I was fully ready to move on. Limbo is no way to live for anyone. It's way too unhealthy. Each person reaches their limit of limbo in their own time. Some let it destroy them. I almost did. Now I recommend to keep limbo as short as possible. They either fish or cut bait. Filing cures limbo.
