I'm sorry to hear this, Rouky. What an awful state to be in. You're in a dip, but you'll pull yourself out of it... I know you will!

When it comes to the legalities of all this, I think it angers our x's because in their warped mines, they feel the need to come out of this on top and not have that residual responsibility- especially financial responsibility. They were in a horrible m so they chose to get out of it, but when they learn that they are on the hook for stepping away... They get angry. I don't have children, but if I did, I would be fuming if their allocated funds were spent elsewhere and with OW. Ugh.

Chin up. Hugs.


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16