Bttrfly is right; best not to engage as it only hurts you at this point. Plus, by listening you will learn more about how is intending to angle things and that is valuable info. heading into a meeting with your lawyer.
The "woe is me" bit about her having to birth children and carry children made me laugh out loud. Umm, well, she IS a mammal!! What did she think would happen? That she would lay an egg in the sand and walk off?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced