So i think that i have gotten her half-way out of the fog...
This is proof that she is still in the fog, and so are you. A person cannot "get" another person out of the fog. You've got to do it yourself. I asked what your wife has done to show you that she's out of the fog... you didn't mention ANY actions in your list. We can all say the things our partner wants to hear, but to actually DO them is another story. A bigger step.
The fact that she wants to see OM again and is making plans to do so is very telling.
I agree with everything darknes said. What are you doing for you???
