So i think that i have gotten her half-way out of the fog...
Stop trying to frame all of your actions around trying to get some kind of reaction from her! YOU didnt get her moving toward you. She is making her own decisions from her own reference view. What you see as coming out of the fog is probably her looking out for herself. Now she doesnt want a divorce because of ABC, but she hasnt changed her inner desires, her inner rebelliousness. She wants convenience, protection, security. Once OM can offer those, do you think she will stay?
