I am asking is it possible to be friends with your Ex?

He isn't cold to me - a bit distant perhaps but I do expect that.

I'm not sure if I want a R or not yet. Maybe he feels that same?

I know we both still have feelings for each other but I feel that I am in limbo.

I'm all over the place at the moment with emotions and am trying to take one day at a time.


Me:54 Him:58
3 Adult children between us.
I am H 2nd wife. My 1st marriage.
Married:8
Together: 12
Separated: 1 Aug 2015
Status: Separated
In NZ we need to be separated 2 years before we can divorce.