So, what's happening? My h is working away for a long period of time.
I've managed to completely clear the house of every single last scrap of his stuff. His little sister came round to collect it all (several car trips).
H sent an email to his mum, which she forwarded to me yesterday. He was asking me to arrange a proxy vote for him for the upcoming elections here, and vote in his behalf, as he'll still be away. No definite instructions as to what I had to do to arrange the proxy vote. I think he was expecting me to find out and sort it.
Then later that same day I got an email from his mum saying that it would all have to be done my Monday, and not to bother with it (that was her speaking, not him). There was also other stuff about what she was doing, and saying that she would like to meet up with my mum at some point. It was friendly and chatty.
I haven't answered either of them. I'm not going to answer him, but I might answer her at some point, with an equally friendly tone. I really appreciate what she has done and how she is behaving with me.
I don't think think it's quite dawned on him yet what he has done. It feel like there's an expectation as to how I am going to behave and a sense of entitlement there. That of course I will continue to help him whenever he asks.
It might not dawn on him until his job finishes and he comes home to our city, and finds out that none of his things are in my house any longer. Not one single receipt or one single sock.
