yes, that is going to be my biggest problem. So i think that i have gotten her half-way out of the fog... which is still in the fog i must add.
I stated previously that i'm an identical twin and have severe attachment problems. It was very easy for my WW to attach as I would just then do everything to make things work, and she could then do nothing.
My WW no longer wants a divorce, and i believe her. However, i don't want my WW back, so now is the perfect opportunity to have a separation. It is now my terms, and she says that "she'll wait for me". I guess when i stated "that i need her to grovel", i never meant it physically - i meant with her heart, all of it.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
