I think that everyone has the same story, the wife that we showered, but never showed them what real love was about. Real love is about listening, respect and trust. I know that I lost that along the way too.

But I have an opportunity to regain all of that, so at least if things don't work out with my WW, i can take that into my next relationship. You're making a great start, i wandered why i stopped doing what made me happy too, but not anymore.

Try to disregard her and her foolhardiness, it will get you and her nowhere. You need to take control and not let it go.

I love this saying... "Give me the strength to accept the things that i cannot change, and change the things which i can". I think this speaks very real to the past, stop looking at it, look to the future, change that!

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.