I appreciate your comments on my thread DDJ and am just catching up on yours but I have to agree with Sandi and others. I made the mistake last year of allowing her back way too easily and I'm in a much worse position now. I got told how she wanted to be commited to me, that she would remove the OM but she wasn't able to and didn't do the work she needed to do. I did and didn't trust her and handled it wrong, I wish I had of found this board a year ago, maybe I would be in a different place right now. The problems that made it arise for her were never fixed or sorted, I didn't learnt that things about me that I needed to put right, I was in my own fog and didn't get it right. There is a good chance I'm to late but listen to people here, don't go it alone as I did.
