I wasn't finished but had to post before my ipad died.
W sent me an email about how unfair our schedule she chose is. She also accused me of a lot of stuff making her out to be a victim, telling me about how she had to carry them and give birth (not to downplay that but it wasn't really an option for me), called me threatening (only instance was when I found out about OM for the first time and I told her he better up his insurance (they sell it) because I was going to pound his face). I used to literally hear things like "you're the most laid Back person I know", etc. in fact at the beginning of a this when I was in the pleading stage believing it was all me she said "I wish you would just get mad." I didn't respond to her email.
She sent a forward from her attorney about how our state won't split custody 50/50 because it is too stressful for the kids and it states the normal procedure is I would get them every other weekend and every other week in the summer. What a joke, but I looked into it and it seems like it might be somewhat right but just seems really unfair. I will take it to my attorney and hopefully she will have more positive news for me. Now I have a huge problem because I have to travel for my work. This is a bad time for my profession and I can't just switch jobs. I've been watching for something but there isn't a lot out there right now. W knows this too.
I'm going to try to talk to her as little as possible and stop reacting to her. you're right bttrfly, she's been pulling my strings through all this.
