Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: Natus
i think she fell into a depression

If this is true then why do you think it is your job to make her happy?


Not sure i understand, but for me when she got the injury it took away her "thing" her "hobby". Instead of being there i actually spent less time with her due to business problems and this went on for a few months. I feel this was a catalyst in her losing love for me.

About her happiness, isnt it a husbands job to ensure a happy wife? or thats what i thought despite failing badly.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.