Sandi2 - thanks for the input it was awesome. You have a real gift.

I was rereading DR and I thought it might be a good idea to share my wants/goal with everyone to see if I'm on track.

Maybe my wants/goals are too broad, too specific, etc, etc,

Need to hear your comments -


1. I want W to move to share the bedroom with me
2. I want her to spend time with me - talking, sharing, planning,
3. I would like us to be able to work together, compromise, share, etc
4. I would like W to make our relationship and family her #1 priority and her interests/Work 2nd
5. I would like us to be a couple do things together, make friends, go to church, etc - Other common interests - business, politics, technology, music, tv, movies, etc
6. I would like to have a physical, affectionate, sexual relationship
7. I would like W to take part in our family activities - sports, church, etc


M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017