I agree with Mu, look to your children. If OM is a scum and you don't want you don't want him near them you have a good sanction.
If you are going to blow her career to what end? You will have a deeply resentful WW and after D she will not care. Lies to say her A started at a different point and you are just anot angry xH.
Who knows, I can't see any benefit in reporting at all, if you were to do this would it repair your R? I doubt it.
There is only one window for it and that is now.
What is best for your children?
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW