Thanks for your reply - I don't think he thinks there is anything wrong with him though. It's all my fault for leaving.

He was completely unapproachable at the end of our marriage. I don't think I've got it in me to say I was sorry to someone who clearly is not.

He treated me like I was something he had stepped on.

Even writing this makes me wonder why I would want to salvage a relationship like that.

He needs to take ownership for his part in the marriage breakdown before we can even contemplate it.


Me:54 Him:58
3 Adult children between us.
I am H 2nd wife. My 1st marriage.
Married:8
Together: 12
Separated: 1 Aug 2015
Status: Separated
In NZ we need to be separated 2 years before we can divorce.