So if you get some spew and even blackmailed (not giving me something she agreed to give me until she gets $$) do you all think that it is best to:
1) ignore? (seems passive and weak)
2) State a boundary (has to be the right option) but I just don't know how to word it. Maybe, I will not allow you to threaten me, if you do it again I will not reply nor will I allow it to factor into my decisions.
