And Vanilla is totally right, of course, the situations we are in make things very hard to sort out.

The only thing I would say, is that severe situational anxiety can be treated with something that you take only as needed. You don't need to take drugs every day for months to get some relief . Certainly, no one should have to suffer panic attacks. They are terrifying.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16