My WW is committed to the marriage and does not want me to give up on her and us.
She said that she cannot build the trust again, i need to, but she will be honest with me from now on. I was never an insecure person, but in this first case she made me someone else, i don't like that person and hope to never see him again. I was very lucky that this was just an infatuation and the OP turned her away. I cannot say that i was blessed, because I believe that we are all blessed, we sometimes just cannot see it.
It should be easy to get the R back, and counselling is scheduled every week indefinitely.
She is definitely out of the fog, is thinking clearly and understands that she is a married woman that lost control, and should not have. I need to make sure that i do not "avenge" her, and i will try my best.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
