14 days of sheer hell

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@darknes, it appears that my wife is out of the fog. I don't necessarily want to be divorced, but i don't want to have to deal with the insanity either. She came out of the fog yesterday when i told her that i want the divorce, for the second time...

I doubt she is out of the fog, I would not count on that.

I don't think that i can act on logic, this is too counter-intuitive for me to cope with.I need to be irrational, it's the only thing that makes sense.

Actually you are close to being right here, everything is actually very logical in a counter intuitive way.
Most people here do not understand the logic.

I am trying to bring her back in, but I am scared that if i let her in too soon, she'll just relapse. She did say that she is willing to go for counselling so that we can rebuild.

Before you agree to anything make sure she is all in on restoring the marriage.

I do agree that divorce will not stop the madness.
Nor will it END things.
They go on for ever, married or not.