ok, so we are definitely getting a divorce. Do you want to be divorced? If not, then why are you saying this?
and we will have the DIY one, where we will pay almost nothing. Not only is this controlling, but you dont have the power to even enforce this. She can certainly commission a lawyer without your 'consent'.
That means that we will need to be extremely happy with what we have settled on. Huh?
We are over and I know that my future will still be what i dreamt it would. You will not be in that picture. Again, this is fine to say. But only if you want a divorce."
I know you are equating divorce with an end to this, but I dont think the act of being divorced will change any of your emotions.
Im not trying to give you a hard time. I just feel like youve been only at this a few weeks and that you are going to do or say things that you will come to regret. How can you stop from acting on emotion and act based on logic?
