Tx, that would be feasible if I weren't 1000 miles away from H and his friends...
And I don't know if I would have the stomach for it. I'm just not interested in dating at all. I still feel married, and according to our state laws, I am. I suspect it's going to take a while before I have any interest in dating. There are many things I need to achieve for myself that I must use my energy on, and dating would distract from that.
I understand. You're right, you do need to focus only on you. It may be the first time in many years you've been able to do that. Still, if the situation presents itself, date one of his friends. I'm a man. I know men. That will absolutely drive him insane. It doesn't have to be anything serious. Just friendly chatting. The 1000 mile distance means nothing. These things are done electronically now so whether someone is in the next house down or on the other side of the globe doesn't matter.