She was talking to me about what i wanted out of therapy and how it is too much to ask for 20 sessions. She then proceeded to ask him if he wanted to still come..he said his mind was set blah blah blah and she rolled her eyes at me and said..look he isn't going to change his mind and you aren't going to change either. It is inevitable that you will get divorced. I looked at her and i said Thank you I am not in denial but I cannot have you be our therapist anymore. I leave feeling worse. We are here to solve communication issues for our coparenting. I feel belittled and attacked and your negativity is unwarranted. She then said well I don't take notes that can get you in trouble here. If i did and wrote about the cutting...you could have your kids taken away....ummm that was years ago and is no issue now. I told her that i did my homework and three years out of school does not give her the experience to be the way she is and told her to please not to do this to people who come seeking help. and people do change..the old me would have sat here and not said anything...the new me speaks up for herself. With that i left
