Hi Jeep. It's very clear you are very very hurt ( rightly so ) and I would advise caution until such time as a clear head can prevail
You have all the cards and you don't need to show any of them out of anger.
The kids are all important and that's the focus here. In 5 years time , Jeep could be madly in love with a new fantastic lady and W will be a bad memory OR W may be back home , either way Jeep wants to be able to look back on this time and know he acted as the best Jeep possible
If you NEED to show your cards to protect your kids then that's a different matter but act from the best you not an angry you
