Its like they go into a shell, they try to be as happy as possible, but it eventually comes falling down and they feel that they cannot be happy anymore. This happiness, is just a cover for sadness, they then become someone else, someone that hurts and cannot get out of the blur.

This is the email from my WW now...

"I can understand that and honestly, I want to make us work I am just very scared and unsure of where I am and want to be, so please do give me time.

I feel home with you Dustin. I can only but try, what I don’t want tho is for you to give up as I/we are going thru this."

There is hope, but you need to detach.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.