Hi DDJ, I have the same issue in that WW has interference as a child in her past that has never been dealt with. Something I encouraged in the early stages of our relationship but never really were. There was a night not long before this were I have scared her even though I didn't do anything. I asked her to talk about it and apologised for whatever I did wrong but she just said she brought the worst out in me. That her going to someone else has brought out the worst in her and therefore since we bring out the worst she quit, gave up, broke (her words). It's hard that she seems to be trusting a group of people that have been in her life for 5 mins as opposed to me who has been ther for a decade. It feels like I am combating a whole group, who she can say anything she wants about me and no doubt they will listen.