Ups and Downs (III)

[Zues126]

J, you are making my point for me. I 100% agree that the ability to walk from a marriage is a monumental issue, and could be a deal breaker.

My only other point is that leave it at that. The rest of his issues were the imperfections you were prepared to work around and navigate through with him. I'd rather you see him as one imperfect human that you would've liked to have maintained a marriage with if he hadn't had the fatal flaw of walking, rather than a horrible person all around because of the laundry list of his imperfections.

It may not seem like it matters, but I think this is a positive way of viewing it.

Thanks for the reply and hang in!