I guess the adrenaline was bound to wear off. This has been a difficult day. I signed the separation agreement in front of a horrible notary (going to file a complaint with the state) and sent it to H. He's been angry and bullying and pushing me very hard to get it done on his timetable.

Also found out he's been lying to me about going to work this week - he took all week off after I left. Today, he's not answering texts and I suspect he's been preparing for OW to arrive today.

Then I got a couple of messages from one of his friends (someone who was very anti-me after H started the A) that I think were meant for H. They were very brief, just stated 'OW-state bound' and followed by a heart. Strange messages from one 60+ year old man to another, IMO.

Hoping tomorrow will be better. I'm planning some pampering before bedtime to get relaxed.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17