Would mean I would move up to Toronto. What I am thinking is having 2 scenarios. One with me living in Michigan and one with me living in Toronto. I just need time to process if I really want to move there after the D. This will at least be set in stone and gives me flexibility based on job opportunity in the future if I decide to come back to Michigan. I would give her the same child support as if I were living in Michigan, I would just get more overnights with my boys if I wanted.
That's an entirely different country. Do you really want to move there for the convenience of the woman who fired you from your job as the husband? Also, if your D is finalized in MI, wouldn't you have jurisdictional/venue problems later on in Canada if they disagree with the decisions of the MI court?
I would look at where you think you want to live long-term and the city that will be most beneficial to your career.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016