Please clarify Klassic, are you divorced or just separated?
Are you living in the same house still?
Take lots of deep breaths. Healing happens at the injured party's rate. That means your H is on his own healing timeline now. You can't speed it up. You can only focus on you.
Congratulations for taking the steps to work with your addiction, that's big. Stay focused on your sobriety for now.
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M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17