Vise, I just wanted to share an insight I have had in the last few days. I know my marriage was struggling 1 1/2 years ago. My wife BD me 15 months ago. I was suffering from anxiety, mild depression and co-dependency. This past Sunday my wife said she wanted a divorce and was not interested in MC. I was really sad Sunday night and Monday morning. The funny thing is that I feel relieved now. I am sad but stress free. The worst is over. The sword of Damocles has been removed.
My point is not to tell my tale of woe, it is to say that the feelings your working through will not have to be done a second time. Everything you have worked through will make it easier for you later if you path includes divorce. You will have the same feelings but will fast forward through them. I hope you find peace, be well
