As I said above, your advice is solid - I may wait and win. If it weren't for the kids, I would have sunken her in every way possible. Her actions just purely disgust me. She said she has a clear conscience (exact words). But, I also know she isn't of the best mind, either...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
