I am a nice guy too and I unfortunately am still not over her (yet, although I'm getting closer every day I read the legal filing she's doing!). I would like my S to have his mother as well, and my WW agreed with me on this, that's why we were able to agree to 50/50 early in the process.
You should have an advantage in your case as she is taking your children from their state of domicile and moving them to a foreign country. If you stand for your rights, no court in the U.S. will make you give up the custody of your kids to a foreign country.
Is there really an advantage if we come to an agreement? If I can get her to agree to 50/50 regardless of the overnights then who cares. I don't want to be the person who is keeping score.
Everyone has their opinion on schools, and where to live, it is how we as parents focus on our children that really make the difference in how successful they are.
I know the laws in Canada and if I can get her to put something in the agreement that she will not go after more in the future then I should be fine.
We are getting our D in Michigan anyway so precedent will be set. (Her action of filing in Michigan shows she does not care about me and just wants to move on. She would have gotten so much more in Canada). She will have to argue long and hard in Canada to get more.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
