or they will cover her butt depending on her relationship with her command. I would gather info first and then do it.
Sounds like he's got that covered with his contacts. But he should report to both the commander and the IG to ensure it doesn't fall through the cracks.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016