What I meant by friends, is that I have several high-ranking ones in the navy medical field who know of the situation but won't do anything unless I ask. See, I have enough evidence to fully sink her. There is no way she's could deny - she even admitted (via text) that she hacked my phone and sent some of my contacts to the OM because she thought I was "also messing around." The lawyer liked that one.
I'm not sure I can find any more info now that she is down there. Ugh. Honestly, I won't involve them. But I fully feel that she is unfit due to her actions and should not be in another director position.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.