I'm right there with you. I first learned of the PA at the end of DEC. not sure I can ever truly forgive. I always said that a PA was the end all because PAs are such a blatant disrespect to their partner and the marriage. In all honesty, once that line is crossed there is no turning back. And, in all honesty, there is no way one cannot look at their cheating partner - even if said partner was fully "repentant" - without thinking of it, especially if pictures were taken.
But if a person can honestly say they can fully trust that person to the extent they did before, especially after the lies, deceit, etc, is uncovered, then either that person truly is strong enough to accept it may happen to again or or they are a true weakling. How does the old saying go, a leaopard never changes its spots...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
